标题: [[ CFA Basketball Club:893 ]] 哈哈,防止“好 人卡”!

作者: Xiao Liu

日期: 2010-03-27

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Avoid The Friend Zone
By Matthew Fitzgerald
Relationship Correspondent
Every Monday

Women can get sex anywhere, any time and any way they want it. The problem
for us guys is that women don’t want sex anywhere, any time and any way we
want it. For women, sex comes bundled up with an onslaught of dizzying and
complicated emotions, most of which they don’t seem to deal with very well.
The result? It’s infinitely easier for women to place men into the
category of “friends” rather than admit them as lovers.

In fact, for a woman, a male friend is the best of both worlds: She can reap
all the benefits of having a man around (strength, decision-making, solid
advice, logic, common sense, and so on) without the hormone-based
entanglements that sex brings to the table.

But men are different. Since we aren’t saddled with psychologically
crippling emotions, we aren’t burdened with the senselessness of separating
friendship from sex. In fact, for us, it’s just the opposite: When a man
likes a woman, he naturally wants to express his feelings by drilling her
deep into the mattress. This is natural.

Unfortunately, the female brain can’t process this logic. Instead, it
quickly “either-ors” any guy it encounters: Either he’s going to be a
lover or he’s going to be a friend. And once a woman has relegated you to
the “Friend Zone,” it’s all but impossible for her to see you in any
other way. Of course, she’ll still expect you to act like the lovers she’s
currently sex-ploiting -- by forcing you to pay for her meals and cart her
around like a chauffeur -- but without the fringe benefit of doing the
horizontal hula.

Many guys fantasize that by acting as a hot girl’s friend or romantic
counselor, they can “backdoor it” into her heart or her bed. This may work
well in romantic comedies (or possibly with psychotic women), but in real
life, you’re just kidding yourself. You’re a “friend,” and she doesn‘t
need you for sex.

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